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Alasan Kenapa beberapa orang terkena Bully dan Cara mengatasinya.

Taukah anda Bully merupakan sebuah hal yang menyakiti orang lain. Pada dasarnya setiap orang pasti ingin diperlakukan baik, menghormati dan saling menghargai. Tetapi, beginilah gambarnya dunia yang tidak begitu sempurnya, saling merendahkan, saling meremehkan dan yang sedikit parah adalah kasus bully. Kasus bully biasanya dilakukan berkelompok, oleh sebab itu orang yang dibully pasti susah untuk menentang karena ada kelompok tertentu yang memiliki kekuatan. Berikut meupakan alasan kenapa seseorang dibully : 1. Dibully untuk kesenangan Kadang ada beberapa orang senang untuk menggoda iseng , sehingga akhirnya seluruh komunitas atau kelompok juga ikut melakukan hal yang sama dengan tujuan senang-senang. tapi, dia tidak menyadari dampak yang dialami akibat hal tersebut. 2. Dibully karena orang Lemah Seseorang biasanya dibully karena lemah, dalam arti disini tidak memiliki kekuatan yang mendorong seseorang takut untuk membully. Sebagai contoh misal ada anak kepala sekolah, sekolah ...

Danger of Pride Because of Intelligence

Basically everyone has thoughts, has reason and intelligence. However, how finally if an intelligence becomes an arrogance. We often listen to the lecture that "The best of humans are beneficial people", not the best people are intelligent people. Intelligence is an important thing for human life, but in the rules of Islam the Prophet is there to improve morals. Even though the apostle was intelligent man but always put morality first. The modern era, like today many people feel smart with their expertise. Of course it's thanks to the teacher, the hard ability to learn, practice. Most people who have ability have good qualities, but sometimes also are bitchy. Judging and belittling someone is normal in life. But actually it will show who we are. Times are changing so fast, local wisdom seems to fade with criticism and search for popularity. The terrible thing when someone feels great about being human is to forget his nature as a human, why is that? yes b...

Understanding and the nature of Trauma

Trauma comes from Greek which means wound (Cerney, in pikett, 1998). The word trauma is used to describe the event or situation experienced by the victim. Traumatic events or experiences will be experienced differently from one individual to another, so that everyone will have a different reaction when dealing with traumatic events. [1] Traumatic experience is an event that is experienced or witnessed by an individual, who threatens safety of himself (Lobergan, 1999). Therefore, it is a natural thing when a person experiences shock both physically and emotionally as a stress reaction to the traumatic event. Sometimes this aftershock effect only takes a few hours, liver or even weeks. Individual responses are generally in fear, helplessness, or horror. Symptoms that appear depend on how severe the event is. Likewise the way individuals deal with the crisis will depend also on their history and past experience. [2] Mental injury or sometimes also called trauma can occur in all human...